tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post4539064786021196499..comments2023-03-26T03:56:16.738-04:00Comments on sunflower seeds: sunday scribblings --- #148 -- regretsdannihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14675797306131871129noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-52335988914022983592009-02-09T07:08:00.000-05:002009-02-09T07:08:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry for your suffering. Nobody is going ...I'm so sorry for your suffering. Nobody is going to be upset with you for "keeping him alive" in story and blog. It sounds like you have a great treasure in his love.<BR/><BR/>Your love and anguish reminded me of "A Grief Observed", a little book by CS Lewis, that he wrote during that terrible time after his wife died. I read it during a time of loss and it helped to see that someone else had understood too.Lilibethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04031218249072893776noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-80850612327765567032009-02-09T00:33:00.000-05:002009-02-09T00:33:00.000-05:00Oh, gosh, Danni-Tears are gushing down my face.Tha...Oh, gosh, Danni-<BR/>Tears are gushing down my face.<BR/>That is a lovely tribute to your love- actually, to the special love you both shared with each other. <BR/>I DO understand keeping his memory because he will ALWAYS be a part of you. That photo of you two, echos your loving writing. <BR/>It is, indeed, a difficult time to note the first anniversary of such. I bet you are a hero to him as well.<BR/>This must have taken much courage to write.<BR/><BR/>hugs,<BR/>gelAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-51632653163903568462009-02-02T18:59:00.000-05:002009-02-02T18:59:00.000-05:00Thank you for visiting, Danni, and for writing so ...Thank you for visiting, Danni, and for writing so truly about your loved one, that special hero who shared so much of your life and who will always be with you in a way others may not understand but you know and treasure.Bethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02014962960321024458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-11948368785378582602009-02-01T19:13:00.000-05:002009-02-01T19:13:00.000-05:00You shared the love we all want. I think I have th...You shared the love we all want. I think I have that now and reading your words, reminds me not to waste any of our time. Brave of you to be so open.susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14924982664582970754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-66487109010647582882009-02-01T18:11:00.000-05:002009-02-01T18:11:00.000-05:00You look as if you belonged together. The love is...You look as if you belonged together. The love is in your words. Thank you for sharing.Roanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01841824351740989301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-52841019085670698152009-02-01T16:31:00.000-05:002009-02-01T16:31:00.000-05:00Well danni, that is one of the saddest things ever...Well danni, that is one of the saddest things ever. You had, and still do have, the greatest and the worst that Life can dish out on a person. And I’m going to leave this site teeter-tottering on the scales of which is worse: to have the greatest love and hurt in the worst way when they go; or to never love like that so you never hurt like that. I’m a big psychological chicken, so I’m hanging more heavily toward the latter, but deep down I know the truth. <BR/>In the meantime, thank you for this. You did what you had to do to nurse your own self through this, and I pray that you keep on doing what you gotta do. <BR/>It’s a small but big thing that you’ve got all us SS friends thinking of you and willing you more joy than sorrow : ) Keep hanging in there, dear friend,<BR/><A HREF="http://missalister.wordpress.com" REL="nofollow">Miss A</A>Miss Alisterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16657740513820420488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-26692885121378663132009-02-01T15:50:00.000-05:002009-02-01T15:50:00.000-05:00Danni...may the light shine bright on you tomorrow...Danni...may the light shine bright on you tomorrow...and may the song in your shared hearts play long and lovely. I am a firm believer that we carry with us the deep aliveness of our loved ones...that they continue to keep an eye out for us. They shine down as stars on our cold Canadian winter nights. Your beautiful love you and your husband shared is there to keep you warm. No need to ever ever regret sharing, caring, writing, spilling your feelings and thoughts....it's good, it's healthy.....it allows the people around you to learn and experience it with you. just my thoughts....<BR/><BR/>You may be interested in a beautiful book by author John O'Donahue...Anam Cara. The title means soul friend in Celtic. I loved the book and have passed on many copies to friends. <BR/><BR/>thank you for taking the time to leave me such a nice comment on my blog. I look forward to visiting here again. <BR/><BR/>cheers to you.....<BR/><BR/>Dana (our names are similar, eh? I'm an Ontario girl too but living in the Maritimes. :)awarenesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06098432781380754899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-15106314806758221552009-02-01T07:44:00.000-05:002009-02-01T07:44:00.000-05:00Thanks for sharing this so honestly and openly. It...Thanks for sharing this so honestly and openly. It made me cry. How beautiful to have shared such Love. I hope you have a lovely day.Elspethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08818240263719381120noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-62155254460350981162009-02-01T01:00:00.000-05:002009-02-01T01:00:00.000-05:00A lovely tribute to your hero. My heart goes out t...A lovely tribute to your hero. My heart goes out to you and I know that you are a compassionate and courageous woman who will survive and flourish by sharing your thoughts and memories.Tumblewords:https://www.blogger.com/profile/04279038951489894119noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-75426534705626960742009-01-31T23:58:00.000-05:002009-01-31T23:58:00.000-05:00Morning has Broken is on my playlist; it will have...Morning has Broken is on my playlist; it will have new meaning since I read your blog. In a way I envy you, because you've known absolute one-ness wit someone.Rinkly Rimeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07890344869337115307noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-14564123544058371362009-01-31T22:47:00.000-05:002009-01-31T22:47:00.000-05:00thank you for writing this and sharing! truly beau...thank you for writing this and sharing! truly beautiful companionship. it's these stories that give hope that something like this is out there for everyone..floretahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18220834824793299258noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-70670950476896042882009-01-31T22:24:00.000-05:002009-01-31T22:24:00.000-05:00God bless...my hear aches for you. I only hope th...God bless...my hear aches for you. I only hope that writing has given you comfort as it has given us pleasure.<BR/><BR/>bb+ (Retire In Style Blog)https://www.blogger.com/profile/05114209481329773753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-90677715947055651362009-01-31T19:00:00.000-05:002009-01-31T19:00:00.000-05:00Wonderful tribute to your 'Hero!' and what wonderf...Wonderful tribute to your 'Hero!' and what wonderful memories you have.Andy Sewinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10023449074796269533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-87274766751630217322009-01-31T18:31:00.000-05:002009-01-31T18:31:00.000-05:00A heartfelt and emotional post - and something els...A heartfelt and emotional post - and something else. A great tribute to him. And very, very courageous.anthonynorthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06680944720744601697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-20692402376382553912009-01-31T18:23:00.000-05:002009-01-31T18:23:00.000-05:00I am proud of you kiddo- I know this took lots of ...I am proud of you kiddo- I know this took lots of courage for you to write, what a beautiful tribute to your hero. I am thankful for having met him myself as he was just as you say- kind, warm and caring. You are doing the best you can through this difficult time, and my friend- you are doing it just fine.<BR/>hugs<BR/>tTanya Gwen Minnickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04693382083314985157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-1178069016988645092009-01-31T18:01:00.000-05:002009-01-31T18:01:00.000-05:00p.s. BEAUTIFUL PICTURE - what a gorgeous couple!! ...p.s. BEAUTIFUL PICTURE - what a gorgeous couple!! :)Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11599048382234757313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3564804316692513750.post-35252147145315802932009-01-31T18:00:00.000-05:002009-01-31T18:00:00.000-05:00OH DANNI - you made me cry!! How blessed are you ...OH DANNI - you made me cry!! How blessed are you to have experienced true love in it's sweetest, purest form! <BR/>You are so generous with all of us in blogger-ville - sharing something so private, so personal... and you did it all so beautifully. <BR/>I am sorry that your hero is not with you physically, but like you said, he's alive and well so long as you are!<BR/>Hugs and love,<BR/>Michelle :)Michellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11599048382234757313noreply@blogger.com